Leadership is not inherited; it is cultivated through resilience, empathy, and the responsibility to serve.
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Coming In From The Cold, by Bonang Francis Mohale is a meditation on leadership that resonates with how I live and lead. The journey from Benoni’s township outskirts to global business arenas is not about titles. It is about courage, heart, and consistent action. The book reminds us that leadership is not a destination but a practice, shaped by values and lived experience.
Wisdom passed down through proverbs instilled discipline and clarity. A marriage at 17 reflected commitment and responsibility amid uncertainty. These roots remind me that leadership is grounded in family and values, not only professional achievement. They show that resilience and accountability are cultivated early, and that personal anchors matter as much as professional milestones.
“You can only lead the people you love.” This statement captures the essence of leadership as empathy, care, and service. Success is shared, vision is collective, progress is collaborative. Ethical leadership is about holding firm to principles while lifting those around you. This philosophy aligns with my own practice: collaboration over competition, shared vision over ego.
Leadership spans family, creative storytelling, ethical decision‑making, and innovation. It means mentoring, listening, solving, and strategising. It evolves through learning and vulnerability. For me, this is about navigating uncertainty with confidence, fuelled by purpose. It is about being intentional in influence, knowing that every interaction shapes legacy.
Fear of poverty ignited ambition. Rising above adversity is a responsibility: lift others as you rise, mentor, share opportunities, and amplify overlooked voices. This principle is not rhetoric but practice. It is the difference between leadership as self‑advancement and leadership as service. The story highlights how adversity can sharpen resolve, and how ambition, when paired with responsibility, becomes a force for collective progress.
Examples show how prioritising others’ growth drives results. Profit‑sharing at Southwest Airlines built loyalty. Health benefits at Starbucks created a people‑first culture. Listening at Popeyes doubled profits. Locally, ethical unity and inclusive growth demonstrate servant leadership in action. Servant leadership is not soft; it is strategic, and it delivers.
Shaping Influence With Integrity
Leadership is intentional influence. Purpose and integrity shape legacy. Every decision matters. “Leadership is never self; it’s always other-centred” is a lens I carry into my work in marketing and beyond. The insights gained from this work, alongside others like Lift as You Rise and Behold the Turtle, challenge us to reflect on the legacy we leave for ourselves, for those we serve, and for the communities we influence.
A Call to Lead With Courage
This experience feels like a conversation with a trusted guide. It is warm, accessible, and deeply resonant. It reminds me that leadership encompasses both private growth and public achievement. The lessons imparted serve as a call to lead with courage, empathy, and integrity, emphasising that leadership, in all its facets, matters now more than ever.
*Coming In From The Cold is published by Tracy McDonald Publishers.