Tafta needs help to bring festive cheer to the elderly

CHRISTMAS morning is often filled with fun, food, and family, but for many older South Africans, the day can begin in silence — with no calls, no visits, and often no meal. 

This Christmas, The Association for the Aged (Tafta) is working to change this for over 1,500 elderly residents across Durban. The nonprofit organisation’s annual Christmas Lunch campaign, which runs from December 3 to 19, is calling on the community to ensure that every elder feels connected and celebrated this holiday season.

“Too many of our elders spend Christmas alone, without a visit, a call, or a warm embrace,” said Femada Shamam, CEO of Tafta. “At Tafta, we believe that no elder should ever feel forgotten, especially during a time when family and belonging are celebrated. Our elders have built the communities we live in, and they deserve to feel loved and respected.”

In total, more than 1 546 residents from Tafta’s 13 buildings will be attending the festive lunches this year. These celebrations aim to bring warmth, joy, and togetherness to those who might otherwise spend the holiday in isolation. “While we have everything covered in terms of main meals, we are still in need of soft drinks, sweets, and table snacks to complete the experience,” Shamam added. “These small touches will make a big difference to the overall spirit of the event.”

The Christmas Lunch campaign has become a cherished annual tradition for Tafta’s residents, many of whom live in independent, assisted, or frail care. For just R150, you can sponsor one meal for an elder; R300 provides meals for two, and R900 ensures a table of six is filled with food, warmth, and laughter. Any donation, big or small, will help create memories that last long after the holiday lights have dimmed.

“It’s not just about the food,” said Shamam. “It’s about showing someone that they matter, that they are still part of something special. Your gift tells them they haven’t been forgotten.”

This year’s festive menu includes traditional Christmas favorites: southern-style chicken strips or stuffed brown mushrooms to start, followed by a slow-roasted leg of lamb with mint sauce, herb-crusted chicken thighs, gravy, stuffing, and creamy vegetable bake. For those preferring a vegetarian option, there’s a delicious veg wellington with seasonal roasted vegetables. All meals are topped off with a mini fruit cake and warm custard. A halaal option ensures inclusivity for all guests. In addition, donations of soft drinks, sweets, and table snacks are being requested to make the festive meal complete.

“The smells of Christmas are the smells of childhood,” said Mogie Govender, a resident at Tafta Lodge, summing up the nostalgia and joy that fill the air every year. Kay Govender from Langeler Towers added, “I’m looking forward to the fun, laughter, and togetherness that always come with Tafta’s Christmas spirit.”

Tafta’s Christmas Lunch campaign isn’t just about a meal; it’s about giving back to those who have given so much to the community. “Because of our supporters, our elders don’t just survive – they thrive,” said Shamam. “This campaign is more than a meal; it’s a movement of care, compassion, and community.”

Tafta is calling on individuals, families, and businesses to join the effort and ensure no elder is left behind this Christmas. Donations can be made by calling 031 332 3721 or emailing info@tafta.org.za. Shamam concluded, “Spreading the Christmas spirit in this heartwarming way will not only brighten the lives of others but will also add to your own enjoyment of the season. Thank you for helping to spread happiness and togetherness.”